Grandma

Above is a photo of some acrylic scrubber sponge thingies my grandma knit. While I was staying at my parents' house over Christmas, my mom gave me the two to take back home. She said that they're the next big thing in the Korean grocery stores (Han Ah Rheum and H-Mart) these days and sell for $3 a pop or so. Apparently they're supposed to be bacteria resistant so very good to use as sponges/scrubbers for dishes. My grandma's quite the wiz with yarn.
I got a call Friday afternoon from my mom about my grandma. She told me she was sick. People get sick. But my grandma's 96 years old. She's seen war first hand. She's seen her homeland torn apart. She left a lot of her family behind. She's still very active and only recently started using a cane.
But I guess she's feeling pretty weak right now. My mom wants me to come home on Monday to see her. She's never asked me to do anything like this before. It might be the last time I see her. My mom said that if it's really looking bad, my grandma's going to go back to Korea. She didn't say "before it's too late" or "to die there" but I knew what she meant.

Here's a shot of my grandma a few months ago at her 96th birthday party just before we blew out the candles. The iMac is video Skyping my cousins [her grandchildren] from Korea who are teaching english for the next year.

Here's a shot of my grandma with my cousin and my mom standing in front of her garden in May. The lettuce greens were coming up nicely at that point.
It'll be an unexpected trip back up to NY, but what are you gonna do. I'll find out what time I should be headed back in the morning.
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January 3rd, 2009 @ 10:50 am
Have a good trip Albert.
January 3rd, 2009 @ 12:36 pm
I hope Grandma is going to be okay. But it's a lot to ask when a person has lived 96 years…she sounds like a wonderful person, and it always amazes me what a person who is that age has lived through. For her, with the war, even a lot more.
You're doing the right thing, my friend. Cherish those days with her as you do.
January 3rd, 2009 @ 1:51 pm
She sounds like an amazing person. I hope she gets well soon.
January 3rd, 2009 @ 11:02 pm
I hope the trip goes well… and thanks for letting us hang out at your place this week!
January 4th, 2009 @ 10:13 pm
Thank you everyone! I got great news earlier tonight from my mom: my grandma is better and I won't need to rush home to see her!
January 5th, 2009 @ 9:06 am
That's great news !
January 5th, 2009 @ 8:29 pm
Glad to hear that your grandma is doing better. This post brought tears to my eyes.
January 7th, 2009 @ 12:14 am
I'm so glad to hear that she's feeling better, Albert. This is one more reminder to value those around us while they're still there. Sounds like you're doing that already.
January 14th, 2009 @ 1:41 pm
Wow, she does not look 96!
I was about to say that I hope she makes a recovery, but now I see from the comments that she did. Good for her!!
February 25th, 2009 @ 8:15 am
awww….i miss halmuni…i don't think she is doing that well right now either… :(